So, is - people I mean.. - Ellen DeGeneres a good example? Like, she's strict, you know? Just to her kids? Has she found them? I wonder if I can find out why~ Probably needs a good match for herself, a guy who's strong enough but cute enough, I dunno. I was thinking of waiting until I was 40, but my husband could be.. 55. I was thinking of having a boy and a girl a year younger.